Hazing is the practice of making individuals go through rituals that often include harassment and humiliation in order to be accepted to a new group. There is a long history of hazing occurring in sports, even though hazing practices are illegal in most states and have even landed some hazers in jail for their efforts.
While it may be easy to identify hazing practices that cause pain and discomfort, more subtle hazing practices that lead to emotional pain and suffering may not be so easy to see. For example, humiliation practices like forcing an athlete to wear certain clothes (or no clothes at all) may not lead to physical pain, but can still be very devastating emotionally — and in worst-case scenarios, can even lead to long-term mental problems.
Making matters worse, it is not uncommon for athletes to acquiesce to the stunts they are prompted to complete while being hazed, leaving the false impression that there isn’t any harm occurring. For example, simply because an athlete willingly allows teammates to tape him up or hit him with a paddle does not mean the athlete wanted to go through ritual, nor does it mean the athlete isn’t physically or emotionally harmed by what happened (even if he or she doesn’t say anything).
Parents and coaches need to be aware of how prevalent hazing practices occur in sports, and how important it is to prevent hazing from happening. A few quick things to keep in mind:
- Team traditions and rituals are not the same as hazing. Team dinners, movie nights, and video game competitions are examples of safe team traditions and bonding, while acts that include physical harm and/or humiliation are almost always acts of hazing.
- Remember, many hazing victims will seemingly go through the hazing ritual without problem only to be “part of the team.” This willingness to participate does not mean hazing isn’t occurring, nor does it mean the victim wanted to be hazed (group pressures and dynamics explain this in better detail as to why people go along with conformity).
- While some hazing practices might seem safe, or even funny, keep in mind how quickly things can go wrong and result in pain, serious injury, or even death.
- Hazing is illegal in almost every state, so there are also legal concerns to be aware of when dealing with hazing.
- Coaches need to overtly and repeatedly talk to their teams about the dangers of hazing, and make sure to not turn a blind eye when they suspect hazing is happening on the team.
- Similarly, parents need to talk to their kids about hazing and be proactive when they learn it is occurring.
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